tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post6850667798627790411..comments2023-10-04T06:21:04.949-07:00Comments on Writing into the Sunset: Bad Rap for RomancePaty Jagerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03257614436422105729noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-38108165505447341772014-08-26T17:17:15.596-07:002014-08-26T17:17:15.596-07:00Melissa, Congrats on finding your HEA! Thanks for ...Melissa, Congrats on finding your HEA! Thanks for stopping in and commenting. Paty Jagerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257614436422105729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-70670437671336577972014-08-26T16:31:24.630-07:002014-08-26T16:31:24.630-07:00I've enjoyed reading everyone's posts. I o...I've enjoyed reading everyone's posts. I often got that comment from my ex-husband that the books I read were hurting our marriage. It wasn't that I expected him to be a shape shifting Alpha male but I did expect him to love me and treat me without emotional trauma. :)<br /><br />I love romances because of the happily ever after. It gives me hope that everyone will find a happy relationship. Of course, I did end up finding a new husband and I'm living my own happily ever after. :)Melissa Keirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10247037321769755660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-19232701072300705692014-08-26T11:02:15.692-07:002014-08-26T11:02:15.692-07:00Christine, I bet that same person would talk about...Christine, I bet that same person would talk about 50 Shades without giggling. I don't get it. Thanks for stopping in. <br /><br />Rain, I agree. A romance isn't read to compare, it's read to escape the every day doldrums. Thanks for commenting. <br /><br />Hi Vicki, I agree. A romance is a book that after you finish reading leaves you in a good mood. And I think less and less authors are writing the trite plots. We have expanded our imaginations outside of what the publishers think the reader wants. Thank you for commenting and stopping in. <br /><br />Sandy, that could be but more likely he has some minion who finds this information for him and he reads it without checking more than one source. I agree with the part if men read romance books they'd know what the woman wants. Thanks for stopping in and commenting!Paty Jagerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257614436422105729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-1884344368589800002014-08-26T10:37:46.732-07:002014-08-26T10:37:46.732-07:00Maybe this radio personality has marriage problems...Maybe this radio personality has marriage problems, and he's blaming it on romance books. The problem is him and not the books. Men need to read romances along with their wives, so they can learn how women want to be treated by men. Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01843816981385732033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-47540553362433300432014-08-26T10:22:18.789-07:002014-08-26T10:22:18.789-07:00Hi, Paty! I speak on occasion and ask if the audie...Hi, Paty! I speak on occasion and ask if the audience reads romance. Few raise hands. I then ask if they read so and so or so and so and then they raise hands. I say the author is a romance writer. <br /><br />I like getting a great heave when a romance is over. I feel happy! What's wrong with reading something that makes one feel happy? Not a thing! <br /><br />Some people are turned off romance because the plot is trite. Something all good writers try to avoid.Vicki Batman, sassy writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13846704675542248648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-18909333234594816092014-08-26T10:04:18.969-07:002014-08-26T10:04:18.969-07:00I've written about this topic a lot. Romance i...I've written about this topic a lot. Romance is not respected by the 'intellectual' crowd and if they read it, they hide it. I just wrote about it again in today's blog on Rain Trueax. <br /><br />I have read a lot of articles about the sociological impact of romance reading. Have a book on it actually. The average reader of romance has a happy marriage, a demanding career and they want escapism for a few hours as they read about the fantasy world. It gives them the energy to take back to their world-- often improves their sex life. <br /><br />Some of the disdain they feel for romance is that readers 'should' read the books they want them to read, often depressing stories that lead to lack of hope. Or even something that is good like Life of Pi but leaves you unsure what happened. We see a lot of that in movies today.<br /><br />To me romances are good for readers if it leads to happy energy and a feeling of hope. It though is definitely not a genre that gets a lot of respect. In the end though, you have to write what comes to you and romance is what comes to me-- respected or not by somebody else. I respect what I do and think the genre can be quite healthy for readers. I get it though that it's not how it is seen right now.Rain Trueaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07994628226501093880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13024760.post-18479149993080769122014-08-26T09:22:58.105-07:002014-08-26T09:22:58.105-07:00Interesting, I too got angry when I was watching A...Interesting, I too got angry when I was watching AM northwest a couple of days ago. There was a substitute to the duo, a lady and for some reason she got off on 'bodice rippers'. Then she'd giggle, and say she used to read them. Giggle, bodice rippers she said again and this went on for about three more giggles and saying 'bodice rippers. <br />Sigh...Christine Younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04009319154924162270noreply@blogger.com